I’m 75 and recently got my first tattoo. It’s something I’ve always wanted. When my daughter saw it, she said, “Mom, what on earth were you thinking? At your age, getting a tattoo is not just inappropriate, it’s downright embarrassing. You’re supposed to be a dignified grandmother, not some rebellious teenager. It looks ridiculous and people will laugh at you.”
Her harsh words cut deep, leaving me hurt and unsure about my decision. This tattoo was something I had always dreamed of, and I thought that by 75, no one would care, and I could finally be free to do what I wanted without judgment.
Should I regret my tattoo and consider removing it, or embrace it as part of who I am? Has anyone else dealt with similar harsh criticism from loved ones?